Which is better ? Lies that draw a smile, or the truth that draws a tear ?
Answer : The truth that draws a tear. You can get angry to know the truth, scream and then get over it. A lie is more painful the moment you discover the truth. Truth said now builds trust.
Truth is useless if it hurts or brings tears. A distracted truth (lie) could do well. For example, if your lover asks you, how attractive was your ex? What would you choose to tell ?
I've yet to come out of the tearful truth my partner told how his ex loved him passionately.
A lie which mends heart, brings smile on your loved one's face, creates peace is equal to 100 truths.
(Article was taken from Yahoo!.)
I have been telling the truth from the very beginning. There was no lies, no deception about the past. No one is better than him, no amount of love can equal his love for me, and my love for him. The only lie that I've told, was to protect his feelings, but nothing deceitful. I was not with any other man. But my truths have been questioned again and again. My words have been manipulated and used as a threat in every situation.
From then on, or was it from day one, and if so, I was blind for I was not aware. Whatever truth I've told, has not been accepted as the truth. The honesty that I've given was not recognized and I am left with tears on my cheeks, over and over again.
I am not worthy of his trust. I am not worthy of his love, and I am not worthy of anything.
I have no right to get upset, I have no right to get emotional, I have no right to think. I am no longer myself. I am no longer a person with own principal. I am no longer me.
From now on...I will stop being me.
...And one of these days... no one will miss me.
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